Life Hack Alert!
I think that to know where you are wanted, and to go there, is the biggest life hack.
Do you trust that your people are out there? I promise that they are.
There is no point in trying to get in where you don’t fit in. It hurts you and wastes your energy.
Life flows way more easily when we’re surrounded by support, understanding, love and acceptance.
How can you tell where you’re wanted?
There are many ways to know that you’re in the right place and with your people.
I think there are a few giveaways that could include the following:
🎤 communication flows easily
💗you feel safe
🫂 gestures are reciprocal
🔮 you can rely on them to keep their word
Going where you’re wanted has long-lasting effects
What do you think the impact of feeling safe and loved is?
According to leading neuroscience expert Dr. Bruce Perry, feeling safe and loved is foundational to healthy brain development in infants and children. These feelings literally set the stage for the rest of our lives.
If you grew up in a household that was safe and loving, you can keep building those blocks that were laid in childhood.
But, what if you didn’t?
There is good news. We have what’s called “neuroplasticity“- our brains are “plastic” and can change with repetition. Especially if you put feeling and emotion behind the changes you are implementing, you will have lasting results.
Hope
Go where you feel good, where you’re wanted, where you come alive. And life will flow much more easily, freely and with purpose.
